Stage IV Ovarian Cancer: Melbey's Patient Story

What happened, in summary

Melbey Segovia was diagnosed with Stage III ovarian cancer in February 2016. By the time her daughter Julia learned about the diagnosis 3 months later, Melbey had already undergone a hysterectomy and started chemotherapy. The cancer went into remission later that year, and she continued regular follow-up.

In May 2017, the family learned that the ovarian cancer had returned. Julia moved back to Boston and became closely involved in her mother’s care while continuing school and work. Melbey kept cooking, cleaning, and doing as much as she could between chemotherapy sessions, while Julia helped with appointments, shopping, and speaking up when symptoms worsened. On one occasion, breathing problems and discomfort led to evaluation that found fluid in her lungs and confirmed that the cancer had spread.

Melbey experienced three relapses over 5 years. Near the end of her illness, she entered hospice. She died on May 4, 2021, about 5 years and 3 months after her February 2016 diagnosis. Julia described learning not only how to advocate for her mother, but also how to protect her own mental health and make space for grief.