What happened, in summary

Françoise tells the caregiver side of her husband François’s small cell lung cancer. At the announcement, she felt as if the ground had disappeared beneath her. Every morning, she woke hoping it had been a nightmare, then had to face the reality of the disease again. The hardest early period was waiting about 3 weeks for test results, when she felt François’s life was hanging by a thread. Once the diagnosis was clearer, she moved into action and put herself fully into supporting him. As a healthcare aide, Françoise was familiar with illness, but being a wife made this different. She searched for information, became frightened by what she read about small cell lung cancer, and was shaken by a specialist who offered little hope. During François’s hospitalization, her workplace helped her take leave so she could visit him every afternoon. She tried to pass him energy and stay positive, even when she was angry at how bluntly some doctors spoke. Later, François continued yearly hospital controls with CT and MRI scans, and each return visit brought fear. Françoise’s story is about the emotional work of caregiving, staying present, and protecting hope when prognosis feels uncertain.