What happened, in summary

Arlene’s colorectal cancer was found through a fecal immunochemical test in November 2023 despite having no symptoms. The diagnosis came during a difficult period soon after a husband’s death, adding anger, fear and sadness to an already painful time.

Treatment included surgery, followed by 2 rounds of chemotherapy over 4 months and 1 radiation treatment. Chemotherapy brought loss of appetite, fatigue, nausea and vomiting, making eating especially difficult. Increasing exercise was one way Arlene tried to cope with the effects of treatment.

At the latest point in the story, Arlene was waiting for CT-scan and blood-test results before deciding the next steps with the medical team. That uncertainty remained emotionally difficult. Socializing became harder, and everyday life was affected by persistent worry and overthinking. Prayer, staying physically active, learning about treatment and trying to focus on positive thinking helped Arlene manage the uncertainty.

The experience has reinforced the importance of asking questions and advocating throughout care. Arlene encourages others facing cancer to stay connected with people around them and to keep speaking up for the information and support they need.