Breast Cancer: Honey's Survivor Story

What happened, in summary

Honey Hilliard was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2020 after feeling a lump in the middle of the night. Her doctors told her the finding was serious enough that she could pursue more biopsy and radiation or choose a bilateral mastectomy. Honey wanted the cancer removed and did not want radiation, so she chose surgery. During the mastectomy, both breasts were removed along with some lymph nodes. Pathology found 2 tumors, but the lymph nodes were clear and the margins were clear. Her oncologist later discussed chemotherapy, but Honey declined that as well. Reconstruction became a major part of her recovery. She first had temporary expanders, then a second surgery to place permanent implants, and she later struggled with health problems after the surgeries. Tamoxifen was started, but she eventually stopped it after severe menopause-related symptoms and went to different doctors to understand what was happening. She later worked with a physician on hormone replacement therapy, which she felt helped her regain energy and function. Honey also dealt with other symptoms that were initially evaluated as possible carpal tunnel or rheumatoid arthritis. As of May 2025, she was in survivorship, focused on feeling like herself again, returning to art, and encouraging others to research their options and advocate for themselves.