Conquering Stage IV Colon Cancer: A Daughter’s Tribute to Her Mother’s Strength

When my mom was diagnosed with Stage IV colon cancer in 2012, our entire world shifted. A routine check for “right-sided pain” revealed metastases in her liver before doctors even located the primary tumor in her colon. As a registered nurse, I understood the dire implications and braced for the worst: years of surgeries, chemotherapy, and uncertainty. My mom, however, radiated positivity from the start. She insisted on volunteering at “Get Your Rear in Gear” events, where the support from friends and family quickly became the wind beneath her wings.

Over the course of two years, she endured intense chemo that ravaged her body, two major surgeries, and a severe allergic reaction to an antibody treatment. The reaction left her face covered in painful sores and scars. Yet, she carried on with a smile and was soon asked by her oncologist to speak with other patients—an opportunity she embraced to share her trademark optimism.

Her motto, “live, love, laugh, & BELIEVE,” guided our entire family. We banded together, getting matching tattoos of the word “believe,” a testament to her unstoppable spirit. My stepdad, brother, aunt, and close friends all joined in, reminding one another that even when we can’t control the circumstances, we can control our reactions.

By 2016, mom was officially tumor-free and finished with chemotherapy—a milestone we celebrated wholeheartedly. People often ask if she worries about a recurrence. Her response is simple and steadfast: “I can’t live my life in fear. If it’s back, bring it on.” She remains my best friend and the brightest light in any room she enters.

Through her journey, I’ve learned how critical it is to prioritize screening, especially with colon cancer. I’m going in for my first colonoscopy at 26, determined to honor my mom’s resilience. Her story is a powerful reminder that hope, laughter, and unwavering support can conquer even the darkest days.